Free Will

We all have it but I believe for most it has become a distant and foggy dream. I myself have just recently remembered what a wonderful thing this Free Will is and that I possess it. We either are this person or know of one.....The person that has worked for the same company for years and years devoting themselves to someone elses reality when it really no longer serves them to be there but now they feel only fear of leaving such a place. They are controlled by the fear of losing their material possessions and not being able to provide for themselves and their families so they stay and are unhappy. We/they always have a choice. Choosing to move on away from that which makes us unhappy will only move us closer to our happiness. Why is it that we turn control of ourselves over to others and then wonder why we are unhappy? We are able to take back our control at any moment and we will be alright. We will always be alright if that is what we believe. Why should we blame someone else for our own weakness and fear to leave?